Your matchmaker found you a dream guy in Houston, and you’ve fallen hard for him in the early stages of dating. But how do you make him feel the same way about you? While there is no magic spell to make him head over heels for you, there are some ways to win his affection. Here’s how to make a man fall in love with you:
1. Don’t play someone else’s role.
Professional matchmakers will tell you that nobody likes pretenders. Trying to be someone else and faking aspects of your character and personality will lead to trouble. You can keep the facade for weeks or months, but sooner or later you have to start being real. Be yourself right from the start. Do not wear stilettos if you’re not into heels. And never pretend you like golf if it bores you to death.
When you wear different masks, you’ll be focused on the pressure of juggling different roles, making it harder to create a deeper connection. You’ll become less engaged because you’re in a constant worry that you might accidentally step out of your role anytime. Men can feel when you are not honest in situations, and they sense when something is off. The guy will eventually know if you’re not your authentic self and just trying too hard to win his attention.
2. Look your best without sacrificing comfort.
Men are visual creatures, and they want to date someone who looks presentable. But you don’t have to do a lot of contouring or put layers of eyeshadow just to attract a guy. Accentuate your best features and look your best without compromising your comfort. Avoid extremes such as heavy makeup or clothes that are overly trendy.
Do not wear something that will make it difficult for you to walk, eat, or breathe. You have to feel good about what you’re wearing so you’ll look good outside. Pick an outfit that flaunts the best version of yourself and makes you feel confident. Your confidence will make you more attractive.
3. Make your guy feel needed, but don’t be too needy.
Men need to be needed. They have egos, and they want to be protectors, providers, and contributors in a relationship. If you want a guy, you have to make him feel needed. Sure, you can change your tire, but you’ll empower him if you allow him to save the day. He’ll be excited to do you a favor because he feels he got a purpose in your life. If you make him feel unnecessary, he’ll eventually lose interest in you and search for someone who will make him feel like a real man.
When you fall for a guy, don’t invest all your efforts on him. Live a well-rounded life and balance your time in dating, work, friends, family, and hobbies. Doing the things that turn you on is a major turn-on for men. However, when you obsess over a guy, depend your happiness on him, and do desperate things to win his heart, he will likely run away instead of fall in love with you.
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